Ever wish you could talk with someone who understands poetry and the mysteries of love? Someone with a connection to Aphrodite and a great understanding of love. What advice would Sappho give?
Thursday, February 10, 2011
Recipe for a Good Lesbian Relationship
Dear Sappho,
Got a recipe for a good lesbian relationship? You know the kind -a long lasting, happy, fulfilled, functional, loving lesbian relationship? Love to Know
Dear Love to Know, As a matter of fact I think I do know a good recipe for a long lasting healthy functional loving lesbian relationship. See if you agree with me.
Number one on the list is mutual attraction, admiration, respect and reciprocal inclinations. Number two vibrational compatibly, which would include similar interests or life paths that you agree on. Number three would be a physical and spiritual connection that elevates your body and soul. Number Four someone who can effortlessly help you see and be your best highest true self. Number five someone you can communicate with on every level, mentally, spiritually, physically, psychically, emotionally. On all levels at the same time if at all possible. Number six make this someone you adore and love enough to be a true partner. Number seven practice and define partnership in every aspect of your relationship, be aware of dominator traits or beliefs. Number eight have sex at least once a week minimum and cuddle every night. Always be kind. Number nine see the beloved in your lover but know that you are the mirror image of your lovers reflection in the relationship as well. Number ten let each be free to be themselves without micro-managing, petty expectations or jealous needs.
Of course for any of these steps or ingredients to really work you must really love the other person first and want to make it work or it's just too much trouble. Hope this helps. Sorry I don't have precise measurements.
Dear Love to Know,
ReplyDeleteAs a matter of fact I think I do know a good recipe for a long lasting healthy functional loving lesbian relationship. See if you agree with me.
Number one on the list is mutual attraction, admiration, respect and reciprocal inclinations.
Number two vibrational compatibly, which would include similar interests or life paths that you agree on.
Number three would be a physical and spiritual connection that elevates your body and soul.
Number Four someone who can effortlessly help you see and be your best highest true self.
Number five someone you can communicate with on every level, mentally, spiritually, physically, psychically, emotionally. On all levels at the same time if at all possible.
Number six make this someone you adore and love enough to be a true partner.
Number seven practice and define partnership in every aspect of your relationship, be aware of dominator traits or beliefs.
Number eight have sex at least once a week minimum and cuddle every night. Always be kind.
Number nine see the beloved in your lover but know that you are the mirror image of your lovers reflection in the relationship as well.
Number ten let each be free to be themselves without micro-managing, petty expectations or jealous needs.
Of course for any of these steps or ingredients to really work you must really love the other person first and want to make it work or it's just too much trouble. Hope this helps. Sorry I don't have precise measurements.
love, sappho